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Writer's pictureDuduzile R Skosana

Matters of Love

If you know me you know as much as my interest changes everyday but these are my constant fascination, which is leaning new languages, my culture and lastly LOVE. I always get that my view point of love most people do not understand it, they think it only exist in my mind. Maybe it does only exist on my mind but i will never settle for anything less than that.Because i believe love is a magnificent kinda thing, i believe love changes everything.


Have you ever met someone who is in love? promise you that is the most happiest person. That person who feels like they can touch the sky, they feel like they can jump around. I know you are smiling as reading this because it sounds good isn't? but some of you realise that they have never felt like that, and a constant argument start between your head and heart about whether love exist. Yes it does...you just need to find it.



The reason why this generation is slowly losing the true pure perspective of love, it is

because we cannot distinguish between love and lust.


One thing i know is that lust ends, after it is given what it lusted it ends. Most relationships that starts with lust do not last forever only few does by miracle. Lust wants it's own thing, it is not there to grow, not to make you better. It is not there for your best interest and it doesn't care about you. Lust may seem as love sometimes at the beginning but it will never be love. Lust is arrogant and selfish, it is dangerous when it doesn't get what it wants.


And then there is love, as i am typing this i can feel the butterfly inside my stomach, that flawless smile on my face. Love is an amazing thing it makes one happy, it is not arrogant neither selfish. Love grow and blossom like beautiful flowers. You know you love someone when you look at them and see a future, you know you love someone when you never get bored with them. That strong bond, that bring people together, that makes a family and that makes two people one that right there is love.

you know you love someone when everyday you find a new reason to fall in love with them, i know it might sound like a fairy tale to some ears, like an impossible story to some eyes but it is true. You know you love someone when you wake up everyday and look at them and say wow i am blessed.



You may have all these material things and live your best life and be as well. But what are they when you do not have someone to share them with, someone to go home to everyday. Everyone needs love, love makes the world go around. People study for a certain course because they love it, some do what they do because they love it and visit the places they visit because they love them.

Imagine a world with no love, mhhh.... it sounds scary isn't because there is no person who doesn't believe in love some just do it low key while us are doing it high key, the bottom of it all is that we just love and view it differently.
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